Welcome To
The Self Regulation
Project
Your nervous system isn’t working against you — it’s working to keep you safe.
But when protection becomes repetition, it’s time to pause.
The Self Regulation Project uses the Five Step Model of Perception © to help you shift from
automatic reactions… into conscious responses — built on awareness, not driven by shame.
As a Member what do I get?

EXPLORE YOUR PATTERNS
You’re not repeating the same patterns because you're weak — your subconscious is just doing its job.
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But now, it’s time to change the script.
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The Self Regulation Project’s Five Step Model of Perception © reveals how your nervous system, past experiences, and hidden beliefs shape your reactions, your relationships, and your reality.
This isn’t just insight — it’s a map to freedom.
From survival mode to conscious choice.
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✨ Ready to discover what your subconscious has been trying to show you?

REGULATE IN THE MOMENT
Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or unsettled?
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Discover The Self Regulation Tools —
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practical, easy-to-use techniques to help you calm your nervous system, soothe racing thoughts, and reconnect with your body.
These tools are designed for real-time support — helping you shift from stress to safety, from spiralling to steady.
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✨ Need support in the moment?
The AI Self Regulation Assistant offers real-time guidance to help you pause, regulate, and respond — with care, not overwhelm.
Start supporting your nervous system today — because real change begins with how you respond to now.

DEEPEN YOUR AWARENESS
🎧 Explore a curated collection of resources that deepen and expand self-awareness.
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The Resource Library offers guidance on trauma, attachment, emotional learning, and personal development —
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through books, podcasts, videos, and articles.
Each piece is hand-selected to support your healing and help you understand the patterns that shape your life.

LEARN THROUGH STORY
Characters like Lisa, Jordan, and Leo don’t just teach self-regulation — they live it.
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Through their stories, you’ll see how The Five Step Model of Perception © unfolds in real-life moments
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— offering relatable insights into triggers, patterns, and possibilities.
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✨Because when you see someone else shift, something shifts in you too.

FRESH TOOLS EACH YEAR
Your nervous system keeps evolving — so do we.
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The Self Regulation Project is updated every year with fresh practices, tools, and reflection prompts to meet you where you are.
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Each addition is shaped by real-world feedback and a commitment to keeping your inner work both supported and practical.
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✨Including this year’s newest feature: the AI Self Regulation Assistant — a real-time companion to help you pause, regulate, and respond with care.

BUILT ON 25+ YEARS EXPERIENCE
Created by Fiona Gilholme-Hird, founder of Quantum Psychology,
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The Self Regulation Project brings together over 25 years of experience in trauma, anxiety, and emotional regulation.
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✨Grounded in The Five Step Model of Perception ©, this resource offers tools, insights, and self-soothing practices to help you explore your internal system and respond with more awareness and calm in daily life.
“The Self Regulation Project is an amazing tool with so much important information, guidance, exercises and even recommendations for external resources for podcasts, videos and books. Learning how to understand why you think and feel the way you do and to be able to self regulate during challenging moments will change your life. This is the best gift you could give yourself”
– Jodie
TRANSFORM THE WAY YOU RESPOND
Learn how to move from automatic survival patterns to conscious, grounded action.
Explore the internal loop of perception, belief, and action using
The Self Regulation Project’s Five Step Model of Perception ©
and begin to gently interrupt the cycle where it starts.
From breath and movement to belief exploration and self-talk shifts—
use tools that meet your nervous system where it’s at.
Learn how regulating your emotions also opens the door to
deeper insight, emotional safety, and healing hidden vulnerability.
Build skills to recognise the cues—before panic, freeze, or overreaction take over.
Self-assess using practical language and body-based awareness.
Learn to spot what activates you—past programming, beliefs, needs—
and begin to shift your response with understanding, not shame.
Transform the urge to run, freeze, or people-please
into the courage to stay, explore, and respond differently..
